"Get Off the Porch and Run with the Big Dogs"
Father's Day is a special time to reflect on the wisdom and love our dads have shared with us throughout our lives. For the past three days, I've been reminiscing about the invaluable lessons my father, Pastor Harris, imparted to me. On Day One, we explored his encouraging phrase "Hallelujah Holler Back." On Day Two, we examined the warm greeting "Hello Family." Today, on Day Three, we celebrate my father's love for a brand that captured his heart and the powerful lesson he taught me through it.
My Father's Favorite Brand
Growing up, I vividly remember my father’s enthusiasm for a particular brand—Big Dog. In the mid-90s and early 2000s, Big Dog was more than just a sports clothing company; it was a symbol of strength and resilience. The brand was famous for its logo of a Saint Bernard dog, and my dad embraced it fully. He had Big Dog mugs, shirts, shorts, and even a bumper sticker. His love for dogs made this brand an obvious favorite.
One of Big Dog's well-known marketing slogans was, “If you’re gonna run with the big dogs, you gotta get off of the porch!” This phrase resonated deeply with my dad, and he would often repeat it to me, particularly during my high school athletic days.
The Phrase that Stuck with Me
Whenever I trained for the 400-meter dash, my dad would encourage me with the words, “Gettem pup.” But it was during those moments of doubt, when I felt unsure if I could continue, that he would emphasize, “If you’re gonna run with the big dogs, you gotta get off of the porch!” This phrase wasn’t just about running; it was a life lesson.
One of the scriptures my father tied into this saying was Joshua 1:9, which says, “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” This verse reinforced the message of stepping out of our comfort zones and trusting in God's strength.
Stoop Kid and the Lesson of Courage
During the time my dad would say this quote to me, I was a huge fan of the show Hey Arnold. One character, Stoop Kid, came to mind whenever I heard my dad’s phrase.Stoop Kid found himself left alone on his stoop right after birth and chose to spend his entire life there, gripped by fear of the unknown beyond. Can you fathom that? In the episode "Stoop Kid," Arnold helps him overcome his fear and step off the stoop, an event that was celebrated by the whole neighborhood.
Like Stoop Kid, many of us have our “stoops” or comfort zones that we are hesitant to leave. My dad’s phrase, “If you’re gonna run with the big dogs, you gotta get off of the porch,” serves as a reminder that growth and success come from stepping out and facing our fears.
What Does It Mean to Get Off the Porch?
Getting off the porch means taking risks, facing challenges, and stepping out of our comfort zones. It’s about being courageous and striving for greatness despite the fear and uncertainty. Here are three ways we can get off the metaphorical porch in our lives:
1. Embrace New Opportunities
Life presents us with countless opportunities to grow, but we often hesitate out of fear of the unknown. Whether it’s a new job, a move to a different city, or starting a new project, embracing these opportunities can lead to significant personal and professional growth. My dad’s encouragement to get off the porch inspired me to take on new roles and responsibilities, ultimately leading me to become the Pastor at Southeast Church of the Nazarene and the Executive Director of Students With A Goal (SWAG).
2. Face Your Fears
Fear is a natural response to the unknown, but it shouldn’t hold us back. Facing our fears head-on can be incredibly liberating. Just like Stoop Kid, who was initially terrified to leave his stoop, overcoming our fears can lead to newfound freedom and confidence. My dad’s words motivated me to tackle challenges head-on, knowing that with God’s strength, I could overcome any obstacle.
3. Trust in God’s Plan
One of the most important lessons my father taught me was to trust in God’s plan. Joshua 1:9 reminds us that God is with us wherever we go, providing strength and courage. Trusting in His plan allows us to step out in faith, knowing that we are never alone.This trust has guided me through various stages of life, from living in public housing to purchasing my own home. God has met all my needs; I simply needed to trust His plan.
Conclusion
As we celebrate Father’s Day, I am reminded of the timeless wisdom my dad imparted to me. His favorite brand, Big Dog, and the phrase, “If you’re gonna run with the big dogs, you gotta get off of the porch,” will always hold a special place in my heart. It’s a reminder to step out of our comfort zones, face our fears, and trust in God’s plan.
I encourage you to reflect on the lessons your father or father figures have taught you and to share those stories with others.
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